The first date is always the most important of all the dates, of course, because the two sides do not know much about each other and the two sides try to show the best qualities.
We always write about the first date, why? Since the start of the Arab romantic films, which were exclusively on television, you see the steps taken by Al-Waseem Omar Sharif or the knight Ahmed Mazhar and the next generation like Hussein Fahmi when he wants to know the girl and then on the first date, frankly romantic in that period was tyranny in a way Natural and can now be called unrealistically, but in fact there was romance, which can not be ignored, the method was thin, shows the attention of men before going to the date of shaving to choose the best dresses, to the type of restaurant or adequate choice of the date, if What I tried to change the picture The next day he sat complaining to his friends that the girl could not understand him, because he was a young man, This is why he did not respond to his contacts after the date. If I made a simple comparison between the two methods, it is not clear why they had previously met on a second date, even though the means is the telephone, and why he can not find them again despite all the available means of communication. Oh man.
Try to recognize your presence first
It is a summary of your presence in front of others in general and your appearance in front of the girl as well, and the emergence of your ability to attract attention, and this has two sides, the first face is the emergence of the dress And attention to the story of poetry and the like, and the appearance has a face related to the personality, you can draw attention in your way to talk and the tone of your voice and your means of speech, all these actions are able to attract attention, some may own one, He has the means together, and here comes your role in understanding the uncle In one way or another, you should study your presence in front of others and measure it well, and develop it, it has an impact on the date and can have a positive or negative aspects.
Show self-confidence
One of the most important steps that a young man must show on the first date is self-confidence. He knows what he is doing, knows what he can do and behaves on the basis of it. Even if he gets sudden, he has the ability to correct and work on it in a deliberate way. The behavior is effective in winning the girl's girlhood and in the realization that with a person she can leave to and can feel safe with him, the girl by nature and whatever her self-confidence and strength of character is always looking for a man who can help her and support her and be next to her, .
You have to start with courtesy
Now it's time for the first appointment. The first step you have to do is show respect for the girl. You have to take the initiative to salute her and make fun of her, knowing that you can appreciate her beauty and taste in dressing, hairdressing, and choosing shoes. , These feelings and compliments that will be reflected on the entire date where the girl will feel comfortable and confidence first, usually before any date of the girl chooses a lot of things that you will carefully from the dress to the public appearance, so you can not ignore all this effort, and considers him As if not, you have to Wen was able to make it visible.
Show your feelings in a clear but clear way
Now try to be careful to express yourself and carefully choose the words carefully and carefully so that you do not show emotional rush to them. At the same time, do not be neutral and reserved, you have to be between this and that.
Make it laugh at the first appointment
How to make her laugh, you simply have to be a joke and attend, there is a difference between being a joke and being a clown, you have to distinguish between the two, but the important to try as much as possible to draw a smile on her face, the woman loves the smile and loves the man The smile fresh, At the same time, you love those who smile, be able to deal with these things and you will reach the level that you can attract attention, but it is important to be able to differentiate between the smile and the irritation again.
Make her cry
This is not meant to cry in the literal sense, but to make it affected by something. You are a man who has been hard in your life, and you are persistent and struggling, you have experienced many difficult circumstances which, despite their harshness, have always been successful and smiling as you are now. From lying, in each of us a certain tragedy, it is important to know how to weave a story around, and to make the girl affected by it, everyone between the smile and the impact is one of the most important factors affecting the first meeting, and may depend on the meeting significantly.
Listen to her carefully when the time comes
Also, the important things to do are to listen to them well, to communicate with them in your eyes, to listen means you appreciate what you say, and you respect them well, whatever the talk and the subject that is going on, it should seem important, and you also want to influence it as We said before that you should be impressed by what you say.
Keep the man's delicate and elegant steps with her
He does not let her open the door of the car on her own, does not let her sit around the table in the restaurant or the cafe Duane helps her, the elegant man, is beside her on the roads, opens the door of the vehicle, and at the same time precedes her to the table for evacuation Chair it and pull it out before you sit on it, try to follow these tips. Save all details of what you have done
Now that the meeting is over and after you return home you have to record all that you have saved about her personality and actions, you should try to recognize her now in a neutral way based on what she knew about her and what she noticed enabled her actions.
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